capture and share
It seems like we spend most of our lives living in the shallows.
We prefer to immerse ourselves in warm, still, and calm water instead of the rough currents and harsh waves. We are more likely to take the road that offers the least resistance, fewer detours, and the most direct path. We plan our lives to the best of our abilities, trying to avoid pain and conflict. But, sometimes, life takes us on a journey with unimaginable consequences.
About two years ago, my son had a bicycle accident that left him with multiple facial fractures. It was a bit tragic, but nothing compared to what I had learned earlier that day. I believe I wrote about this, at least on some level when it happened, but more has come to light that I want to capture and share with you. You see, earlier that day, I learned that the son of a former co-worker was in an accident that left him with a devastating and likely permanent injury. All-day, this young man Matt was on my mind, and when we got the call from Jonathan about his bike injury, although very upset, I was relieved and thankful because I knew that he was going to be okay. So why bring this up now? What does this have to do with capture and share?
We all live different lives. From what I remember from chatting with Matt’s mom about his fishing adventures, I knew that he took the road less traveled. Moms tend to worry about their children and their sons in particular. My son has been known to do things that cause me concern. However, Matt's day was a normal day for him. His adventures on the water were his equivalent to living in the shallows. He wasn't wading in the warm water like I might choose to do, he was being his free-spirited self. You must read his story and hear his voice through the written word as he describes the day of the accident and learn about the life that has transpired over the last near-two-years. It's a beautiful story about an amazing young man. His life has changed, but much remains as it once was. His interests and talents are active and alive.
About a month or so ago, Jane, Matt's mom, came to mind. Since I have been trying to be more 'mindful' of those that enter my thoughts, I immediately sent her a text. She responded right away- and of course, I asked about Matt. She updated me on his progress and shared with me a YouTube posting of his (click on the blue link). That led me to his website, which prompted me to send him an email. I tend to be rather intentional. Perhaps I should pause and think, but I tend to live in the moment, at least in some cases, and just move forward with what my heart is saying. That created another connection, a powerful one at that- capture and share.
We often believe that the easy path in life will cause us to avoid difficult circumstances. Sometimes that may be the case. But, there are no guarantees that we'll be protected from adversity. What is safe for me isn't necessarily safe for someone else. On the contrary- what is risky for me is rather safe for someone else. You see, Matt was living his life like he always did- exploring and experiencing the natural world. Diving into cold water may not appeal to me, but it wasn't unusual or out of the ordinary for Matt.
I guess what I'm suggesting is we have very little control over the outcome or destiny of our lives. We may try to live within the safe boundaries of shallow water or choose to live close to the edge of danger. However, that doesn't mean that something won't happen to us even if we play it safe. I certainly do not recommend reckless living, but perhaps we need to be more accepting of the life we end up with. And that life isn't an ending, it's just the beginning of a new form.
Sometimes I definitely prefer the safety net of the shallows. I want my life to go along as planned, everyone lives in harmony on this earth and ever after. Learning to live beyond what we want is the challenge. What I learned from reading Matt's story has taught me to be acceptant and tolerant of circumstances I may not choose or like. Our story may turn out different than what is conjured up in our minds, but that doesn't mean it's not going to be powerful and wonderful. Matt has a story to tell, a talent to share, and a journey to admire. The chapters may have changed but the story is being recreated into something very beautiful. Allow his story to capture and cause awareness of the goodness in your life, and share the journey and outcome with those in and beyond your immediate space.
"At any given moment, there's an infinite amount of grace to be enjoyed."
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To read and actually hear Matt speak to you in his own words is so moving.
I strongly encourage you to read his story. It’s powerful!
Life is about connection, so capture and share this story.
Okay…so I couldn’t help but add a song.
I referenced ‘shallows’ quite a bit, so how can I resist,
A Star is Born- Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper!