Aesthetic | Definition of Aesthetic by Merriam-Webster

1. adjective. concerning or characterized by an appreciation of beauty or good taste

We just came back from a quick two day visit to Charleston, South Carolina. We had two tasks on our agenda; engagement photos and bridal dress shopping. Both goals were met with great success. Charleston is a rare gem of a city. There really is nothing like it. A portion of our time was spent in Mount Pleasant, just outside of Charleston-proper. We explored Sullivan’s Island for part of the photoshoot and discovered an area that could cause me to pack my belongings and relocate to Charleston.

There’s a section of historical Mount Pleasant that is a dream. The old homes ooze with charm and character. The tree-lined streets and lush gardens evoke artistry and depth of design. A nearby restaurant felt European-esque with outdoor seating in the appropriately shaded garden. It was a package of sensory beauty that triggered emotion and desire.

We ate dinner at the Post House. The manager and staff were so attentive and eager to engage with their guests. We arrived early, which actually gave us the edge-up on attention and what appeared to be a customized service. The meal was fantastic. Each course served was delightfully consumed. I will definitely make a return visit one day.

We walked around the neighborhood and soaked in the aesthetics. Locals walked or sped by in their golf carts with a bit of indifference. At the time, I didn’t think much of it since we were in such a pleasant head-space, and the natural and architectural elements were so appealing.

We came upon a spot where people were deliberately making their way-as if there was a concert or something of interest. Sure enough, there was a point of interest. We happened upon the perfect spot to watch the sunset over the water, with the Arthur Ravenle Jr Bridge in the distance. This bridge connects Mount Pleasant and Charleston and spans over the Cooper River.

On Sunday, we walked the dog-lined shores of Sullivan’s Island while Sarah and Christian became subjects of the camera. There were as many dogs as people in the early hours of the morning. It was a bit peculiar and remarkable all at the same time. It was during this time that the vibe of Charleston was starting to settle in. On some level, we all took note of the undercurrent vibe, but it still remained superficial and somewhat distant.

The photoshoot continued in Hampton Park.  Frederick Law Olmsted, the famous designer of municipal parks in America, including Central Park in New York City, adopted son John Charles Olmsted, was hired to design the garden of Hampton Park

The final stop of significant importance was picking out a wedding gown. Sarah made an appointment in Charleston because the photographer she chose is from the Charleston area. Meeting with their photographer, Alex Thorton, allowed them to get acquainted with the camera before the big day. For some time, Sarah had her eye on wedding gowns designed by Alexandra Grecco. Lovely Bride carries dresses by this designer, so that is how we ended up at a shop in Charleston. Sarah found the gown that matches her personal aesthetics of simplicity, timelessness, and glamour. It is certain to adorn her natural beauty on her wedding day.

There is much to say about Charleston. It is charming, unique, colorful, historic, and a true delight to visit. It draws you into a place you long to stay. It conjures up dreams that might be buried deep inside like, opening up your own bed and breakfast or venturing out on another enterprise. However, there was something that was lacking. Aesthetics goes a long way, but is it enough?

Charleston did not seem to have the friendliness that Wilmington, North Carolina has. Yes, Charleston is a one-of-a-kind place. Certainly, people are nice and hospitable. But, there is a different mood in the air, do you belong here? I rarely, if ever, even in the most up-scale parts of Wilmington, felt as if I do not belong. Whether walking along the shores of Wrightsville Beach or downtown Wilmington, people are happy and, almost everyone says hello. Strangers wave to you as you walk your dog along the street. It took me a while to get used to all the random 'hello's! The air is different in Wilmington compared to Charleston. So, perhaps I will not be packing my bags and moving to the aesthetically appealing Charleston. I shall remain where the air is friendly, and the scenery is quite aesthetically pleasing too, at least for now!